Sunday, August 31, 2008

NEW CHANGE

So I decided to finally change the look of my blog. I figured that it's about time I gave it a makeover since retaining the same template all these years. The photo in the header was actually taken by Ruther at a park months ago. I decided to use it because I thought it looked really bright and cheerful and since Ruther took it, I thought that it gave the blog a sort-of personal look. I think that it actually looks really nice now. Ruther loves the green I'm sure and I'm just enjoying the fresh new look. I think this means I'll be changing the blog's look every month or so?

We'll see. =)

STILL RAINY

Despite the rains, it has been a somewhat nice week for us. Ruther took 2 days off from work and we played Wii, watched tv shows and just bonded with the boys. It was nice. For the first time since we arrived, the boys started wearing their jammies because of the cool rainy nights and they looked so cute. Ruther has been teasing me endlessly about my tolerance to the cold. He said that by the end of October, when it gets chillier, I might complain so much about freezing. That got him a pouty face. Anyway, for now, it's nice to have a bit of cool weather for a change. Summer was nice but it's really not lovely to be sweating buckets the moment you leave the apartment. So yeah, this is definitely a nice change. I just hope that the rains won't be torrential though because that could put a damper to some of our plans.

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Since I arrived here, I haven't felt homesick at all. I still don't. It's the same feeling I had the last time I came to Japan. I suppose home truly is where the heart is. I told Ruther time and again that as long as we're together, no matter where we end up, it would be fine with me. I'll cope, make adjustments, continue to homeschool the boys and even look for a job if it means having our family under one roof permanently. For me, being together means a lot and really, there's nothing else in this world that I would want more than that.

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The other night, I watched the new Disney Original movie Camp Rock and I have one word to describe it: disappointing. I thought it was going to be another cool and fun show to watch like High School Musical but it wasn't. It was so-so. The plot and script were bad, the acting was so-so, the characters were not that interesting, the songs were forgettable and the movie just dragged on and on. I was so disappointed. High School Musical 2 was a whole lot better than this one. Even Jump In was a whole lot more interesting than Camp Rock. It was just so dull it was sad. I hope that the next Disney movies won't be as bad.

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

TRASH TALK

Throwing garbage is definitely not a simple thing here in Yokohama. Believe me. Before, and back home, it was "biogradables" and "non-biodegradables". And people then kinda complained about segregation because they had to buy additional trash cans and of course, they had to always be aware which bin to throw the trash in. And then after that, it became "paper", "plastic", and "metal". And I thought that was it. But nuh-uh. There was also "wet" trash and "food scraps". Okay, I could handle that.

When I got to Yokohama, it was an entirely new ballgame. Really. Not only do they have the paper, plastic, metal and food scraps classification, they have a sub-classification for those as well. Take "paper". You'd think you could very well stash all paper trash in one bin, but nooooooo. There are 4 categories (newspapers, printed materials, cardboard, cartons) and you need to further segregate them into "recyclable paper" and "paper not suitable for recycling". And what are the latter, you ask? Well, aluminum-coated or waxed cardboard, like the paper containers of yoghurt, ice cream, instant noodles, detergent and bath soaps fall into this category.

And what about "plastic"? There are plastic containers and packaging (bottles, tubes, nets, trays, cups and packs, caps, plastic bags and wrapping, cushion wrap) and plastic PET bottles. You'd think you could just very easily put the PET bottle into the trash bin but you are so wrong. There are specific instructions on how to throw it: Remove cape, lids, inner seals, etc. and rinse before putting out. Please crush PET bottles. Put out cans, bottles, and PET bottles together in semi-transparent bags so that the contents can be quickly and easily verified by the collectors.

There are also specific collection days for specific trash, like kitchen scraps are collected twice a week, recyclable paper are collected every first and third Mondays of the month, plastic containers and packaging every Monday and cans and PET bottles every Wednesday. See? Not easy. I always have to check the chart to see which trash to put out each day. And, you have to leave your trash in the trash receptacle on the scheduled collection day by 8am. Don't ask me why, that's what's written in the Yokohama City website.

You'd think those are the only classifications of garbage they have here. Once again, you are so wrong. There are more: small metal items less than 30cm in size (wire clothes hangers, knives, pots), dry cell batteries (only cylindrical batteries - button type NOT accepted), non-burnable garbage (glass items, ceramics, light bulbs, bottles for cosmetics), and oversized garbage - metal items and other items larger than 50cm (appliances, furniture, etc). Oversized trash will NOT be collected by the regular collectors. You will need to contact either a recycling commitee in Yokohama, the retail store where you bought the appliance, or the manufacturer (for computers, for example). So when we had 3 trash bins in the apartment before, we now have 5 plastic bags for all the different garbage. We had to set the cans aside because the apartment is quite small and having 5 trash cans would simply occupy a lot of space. We then settled on this handy wire rack that could hold 5 bags and won't occupy a whole lot of space.

Crazy, isn't it? The first few days I was here it was really all so confusing. I had to read the guide, check the website and make sure the trash were all segregated properly. And there is a ¥2000 fine for people who do not throw trash properly and are caught. Scary. I tried to teach Nikki how to properly throw the trash and which trash bag is which but because of the many classifications, it's not easy to just tell him to "throw this in the recyclable paper bin". Well maybe I could teach him the sub-classification next time.

Okay, now for the good news. Because of the vigilance and the discipline of the Yokohama citizens, they have reduced 30% of garbage 5 years earlier than intended. Isn't that great news? In 2001, they had 1,610,000 tons of trash. And in 2005, it was reduced to 1,060,000. Wonderful. As a person concerned about our environment (and helping in my own little way), I only wish it was like this all over the world (more so in the Philippines). In Yokohama, there are neighborhood recycling groups and recycling groups registered at Yokohama City can receive a bounty according to amounts of recyclables. Isn't that creative?

Sigh. Yes, I admit, it's definitely NOT easy to throw the trash here in this city. It's challenging and frustrating especially when the trash piles up and it's not collection day yet. But I will continue to be vigilant and follow the guidelines if only to preserve Mother Earth and to do my part in making this world a better place for my kids. Let's hope you are doing your part as well.

LADY


A bas-relief, taken at Yokohama station. (Yup, still remember my Humanities lessons and I still know what a bas-relief is.) ;)

Monday, August 25, 2008

COLESLAW

This is my recipe but I adjust the ingredients according to taste and preference.

shredded cabbage
julienned or grated carrots
minced onions
julienned apple slices
grated cheese
pepper
mayonnaise
sugar

Mix all the ingredients well. Season according to taste. Chill before serving.

RAINY WEEK

Seems like we're going to have a rainy week. Today it was also quite rainy and since Nikki was starting to cough a bit, we decided to stay home and just bond. We read books, cleaned (there was an apartment inspection today), watched movies (Prom Night - which sucked; and Shoot 'Em Up - which I loved), watched tv shows, ordered pizza and chicken for dinner, and played Wii. We had a lot of fun playing the Wii and I even proved to Ruther and Nikki that I wasn't a total loser with such games. I usually suck and sometimes don't bother to play anymore but with the Wii, it's just so fun you won't mind losing (Nikki wouldn't agree but he has yet to learn the art of losing gracefully and being a sport). It was such a nice today and despite the rains and staying indoors, I'm glad that we had another great family bonding day.

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I've been trying to practice Nihongo words these past weeks but perhaps because of poor memory or lack of dedication, I must say, my knowledge of the Japanese language has not improved a lot since last time. I have tried to be braver in talking to people and trying new phrases but sometimes, my fear and anxiety gets the better of me. I noticed that most of the time, Ruther forgets to teach me words or phrases so it's usually up to me to study them and use them accordingly. I hope to be able to go around Yokohama by ourselves eventually but I know that until I master more useful words and phrases, I won't be able to do that with confidence. So maybe I need to study a bit more, practice a bit more and converse a bit more. Who knows, maybe in a few months' time, I'll be able to understand and be understood. Finally.

AS I LAY...

I cannot even describe how content I feel right now. It is 1:35 in the morning and I have just finished reading my book. Ruther is fast asleep and gently snoring. The boys are also happily coasting off in dreamland. I know that after I write this and lie down in bed, I would drift off almost immediately. It feels so wonderful being here with Ruther. Back in Manila, every night is always a pinch in my heart with the realization that Ruther and I are once more sleeping separately, that we were not going to kiss each other good night, that miles and miles of space are between us. I always feel morose and depressed as I go to bed because that's when I miss Ruther the most and when his absence is the most noticeable. I usually delay sleep for as long as I could because lying in bed awake and missing your husband is not a good combination when you're a sensitive soul (like me). I remember so many nights when I would cry myself to sleep. Sometimes, I would lie in bed and wonder if Ruther was snoring at that moment, or if he was still awake at such a late hour or if he would get up early the next morning. Now that we are together, I do not have such worries when I lay my head on my pillow. I could just open my eyes and he'll be there, I would reach for him and he's beside me in an instant. I've always told Ruther I'm a very physical, touchy-feely person and really, I am. Sometimes, words are just not enough to tell someone how you really, truly and honestly love him. I just don't want to be apart from Ruther anymore. This person makes me happy and makes me content. I feel that I'm not me when I'm not with him (I know some people will disagree with this but I really don't care). I feel that when I'm with Ruther, I am a better person: a better mom, a better wife and a better human being. The world is just a better place when we are together. Well, at least that's what I feel. I wish we would never have to be apart again. It would just be terrible and heart-wrenching. If God would give me the chance to wake up to my husband's face every morning, I would certainly be one happy and content woman.

Friday, August 22, 2008

LANTERNS


These are the lanterns mentioned in a previous post titled Obon. These lantern apparently guide the spirits of relatives and family back to the world of the dead. I'm so glad I had the chance to photograph this.






WHAT I LOVE (1)

There are so many things I love about Japan. Sometimes it comes to me as I'm walking to the supermarket, or looking out the window or while I'm doing chores. Other times, it comes to me as I encounter or experience it.

SMOKING

The first time I came here I never realized it but in Yokohama, there are always designated areas for smoking. Apparently, you can't just do it anywhere. And should you get caught smoking illegally you will have to pay a fine. I also read somewhere that if you are caught throwing your cigarette butts on the street (like in particular areas in Tokyo), you could pay a maximum fine of ¥50,000. Wow. For someone like me who cannot stand the smell of cigarette smoke (it's just too overpowering for my nose), I think this is wonderful. No more secondhand smoke for me, thank you.

CLEANING UP (AT FAST FOOD RESTOS)

This is one thing we don't do in the Philippines. And I really wish we had to because not only will it teach our kids discipline, they will also learn how to properly segregate trash. When we eat at McDonald's or a similar fast food joint and we're done with our meal, we don't leave the trash on the table (as we do in the Philippines). The first time I had to throw the trash into the bin, I was nervous. But there were illustrations on the doors and observing how the other customers did it, I now know where to put everything (paper, plastic, etc) and which bin to put them in. They even have this funnel-like chute where you pour your leftover drinks and ice into before disposing the cups. I do all the throwing of the trash but next time, I'll teach the boys how to do it. It's never too early to teach them about segregation. =) Oh yes, and another thing I love about cleaning up, it teaches the boys to be conscientious in helping others. It teaches them not to be lazy and to expect to be waited on all the time. It teaches them to be responsible and disciplined. And who wouldn't want their kids to be like that?

DISABLE-FRIENDLY

This is another thing I love about Japan. When we went to the mall last weekend, I noticed a lot of families taking their disabled loved ones with them. Some had really high-tech wheelchairs and went around independently and others were pushed by
a family member. One mom (at the open parking lot), brought down a stroller and I thought it was for a toddler. The kid who sat there was around 8 years old or so and at first I wondered about it but when I saw the back of her vehicle, a sticker with "Autism" was pasted on it and I understood. It's never difficult going around the malls or shops because elevators are everywhere. Sometimes, at the train station, I would notice a station employee preparing a ramp for a wheel-chaired commuter who had to get on or off the train. Really, it warms your heart to see such concern for people with disabilities. I only wish such concern was as pronounced in the Philippines.

Anyway, will get to do more "things that I love about Japan" later on. For now, this will have to do. =)

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

SUMMER ENDING

September is almost here and that means summer is almost over. Students will be going back to school and autumn will be another thing to look forward to in the coming weeks. I think it would be wonderful to be able to live here in Japan. Of course, I would need to learn more (much more) than the handful of Nihongo words that I know right now but the thought of living here with Ruther and the boys is very appealing and sounds so wonderful. I would want to work part-time right now but unfortunately, my visa won't allow me to do that. So I suppose the most I could do right now is make friends and to learn as much Nihongo as I can so I could finally converse with people without feeling nervous. At the same time, I intend to focus on the boys' homeschooling. When I lamented to Ruther about how Nikki might forget his piano pieces (from his piano book) while he's here, he suggested that I check out amazon (Japan) for a portable piano for Nikki. We were able to get one for around ¥3000+ which was originally priced at ¥13,000. Great deal. I was so happy Ruther got it for Nikki. Yesterday we practiced Mary had a Little Lamb, Old McDonald, Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, Happy Birthday To You, Yankee Doodle and Rock-a-Bye Baby. Not bad. Nikki forgot some notes but after practicing for several minutes, he remembered them. So now, I might look for simple piano pieces for Nikki and maybe we could practice those this week. We're also considering getting a drum set for Ethan. Not the toy version because Ruther has been wanting a drum set for years now. The drums would be the perfect instrument for Ethan who loves it. Anyway, we're thinking of getting a Yamaha (electronic drums) but we still have to check all its features and stuff. But should we get it, it would be a great instrument for Ethan to learn. Okay, and for Ruther to enjoy as well. =)

Last Sunday, when we were on our way to church, it was very cloudy and chilly. I made me think of autumn and even some people were commenting that the chill didn't feel summer-y at all. Anyway, it was still great to be able to stroll comfortably and even the boys were happy with the cool weather. Maybe summer is really coming to a close?

When summer ends and the chillier fall begins, I'm sure I'll miss my flipflops. I remember missing those last time when I always had to wear shoes and socks everytime we had to go to the supermarket. At least this time around I got to wear them a lot longer than last time. But I still hope that this year we would finally get to see snow. =)

Monday, August 18, 2008

OBON

http://www.japan-guide.com/e/e2286.html

Obon is an annual Buddhist event for commemorating one's ancestors. It is believed that each year during obon, the ancestors' spirits return to this world in order to visit their relatives.

Traditionally, lanterns are hang in front of houses to guide the ancestors' spirits, obon dances (bon odori) are performed, graves are visited and food offerings are made at house altars and temples.

At the end of Obon, floating lanterns are put into rivers, lakes and seas in order to guide the spirits back into their world. The customs followed vary strongly from region to region.

Obon is celebrated from the 13th to the 15th day of the 7th month of the year, which is July according to the solar calendar. However, since the 7th month of the year roughly coincides with August rather than July according to the formerly used lunar calendar, Obon is still celebrated in mid August in many regions of Japan, while it is celebrated in mid July in other regions.

The Obon week in mid August is one of Japan's three major holiday seasons, accompanied by intensive domestic and international travel activities and increased accommodation rates.

In 2008, the peak of the Obon travel season is anticipated to take place between August 9 and 17 with the busiest days on August 13 (people leaving big cities) and August 16 and 17 (people returning to the big cities). August 9 and 10 also expected to be busy.

SLIPPERS (GETA)

Saturday, August 16, 2008

SUMMER

I love summer in Japan. Except the heat of course. And the humidity. But that's it.

I love the festivities, the families spending time together, hanabi, trips to the beach, etc. It's a whole lot different and feels so different from the way we spend our summers back home. It's usually vacations to the provinces, summer activities for kids, and trips to the mall to cool off. Although it's not as humid in Manila as it is here, I still love summer in Japan and here's why:

1. snowcones - I am now officially fond of snowcones. We don't have a lot of snowcones in Manila. The most popular summer food in Manila is halo-halo I suppose. And I love that as well but snowcones are just so fun to eat. And I love the bright colors. So yeah, as long as the summer heat is here, I suppose I might as well try all the flavors out there (well maybe except tea).

2. parasols - I just feel so feminine when I'm out walking with my pink parasol. It's just so pretty. We don't have parasols in Manila. An umbrella is an umbrella and you use one rain or shine. But here, it's wonderful to feel so dainty and girly with a frilly parasol. Well, if you're not sweating like a pig under the sun that is.

3. cicadas - The sound of the cicadas is another favorite of mine during the summertime. I never realized now much I loved hearing their chirps until they became quiet when autumn came the last time we were here. I didn't expect that and now, I intend to fully appreciate their music while it lasts.

4. yukata - I have yet to wear mine at a hanabi or matsuri but ever since I tried putting one on, I now fully appreciate this summer attire. Not only are they easier to wear than a kimono, they are colorful and fun to wear.

5. hats - This is another accessory that is not very popular in Manila. Which is pretty surprising since the Philippines is a tropical country and a lot of heads would appreciate a feminine hat. Anyway, I love how people so casually and prettily dons one on and how cute little girls look when I see them and their beribboned hats. It's just adorable.

6. hanabi and matsuri - I love how people get together to celebrate the summer. I love that despite the crowd, the effort and the trouble of getting to an event, people still bother to attend these to just keep their tradition going. And I love that I have been a part of this.

Friday, August 15, 2008

SYMBOLS OF JAPANESE SUMMER

http://japanese.about.com/library/weekly/aa081901a.htm

August is the hottest month of the year in Japan. Not only is the temperature high, so is the humidity. The word for "hot" is "atsui (暑い)," and "humid" is "mushiatsui (蒸し暑い)." Although the northernmost Hokkaido is much cooler, the temperature there goes up to 30 degrees or more on an almost daily basis in August. This is called "manatsubi(真夏日)" or midsummer days. Let's look at symbols for the hot Japanese summer.

Yukata (浴衣

Yukata is an informal, unlined kimono made of cotton and worn with a narrow sash (obi). It is usually worn to the bath or in the summertime. Unlike ceremonial kimono, yukata is casual and comfortable to wear. It can be worn next to the skin. Wooden clogs (geta) are usually worn without Japanese socks (tabi) when wearing a yukata. Today many people wear yukata at summer festivals (matsuri), fireworks displays (hanabi-taikai), and the Bon Festival Dance (bon-odori). Recently the yukata has become fashionable among young women.

Bon-odori (盆踊り)

O-bon is a Buddhist festival in honor of the spirits of the dead who return to their families. It was originally cerebrated in mid-July according to the lunar calendar, but is now held from July 13 to 16, or from August 13 to 16 depending on the area. It is the biggest yearly holiday in Japan after New Years (shougatsu), and is a time for family and relatives to get together.

One of the events that customarily accompany o-bon is the bon-odori (Bon Festival Dance). Originally the dances were held to console departing spirits, but today they are simply enjoyed as entertainment. In open public spaces, communities build a platform (yagura) and lanterns are tied to it. People dance in a circle around the platform.

Hanabi (花火)

Firework displays (hanabi-taikai) are a typical summer scene in Japan. They originated in the Edo period (1603-1867), and it started with the competitive exhibition of fireworks between two fireworks factories, Tamaya and Kagiya.

Large-scale fireworks displays are held regularly at various locations, but enjoying small hand-held sparklers and low-risk fireworks in backyards is also very popular.

Semi (蝉)

The cry of the cicadas (semi) is one of the piercing sounds of summer. When Japanese hear semi singing, they realize that summer has arrived. When there are many cicadas, the sound becomes like a shower, which is called "semi-shigure" (shower of cicadas). There is a famous haiku poem about cicadas written by Matsuo Basho (1644-1694).

Shizukesa ya
静けさや
The tranquility
Iwa ni shimiiru
岩に染み入る
Permeating the rocks
Semi no koe
蝉の声
Voices of cicadas

Since cicadas die only about a week after birth, they are compared to the transient life of man.

Kakigoori (カキ氷)

Kakigoori (shaved ice flavored with sweet syrup or snow cone) is a popular summer snack. It seems everywhere has a version of it. In Japan it comes in green tea flavor with an azuki (sweet red bean) topping. Some condensed sweetened milk also can be added on top. Fruit flavors like strawberry and melon are also popular.

Other popular foods in summer are somen (cold noodles), hiyashi-chuuka (cold ramen noodles), zaru-soba (cold buckwheat noodles), mugi-cha (cold roasted barley tea) and so on.

Thursday, August 14, 2008

REFRESHING


Colorful and delectable. Took this photo while walking the streets of Yokohama.

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

WEDNESDAY WONDERINGS

I can't believe that we've been here in Japan for almost a month. Sometimes, when I'm walking towards the supermarket, or I'm looking out the window, it's hard to believe that I'm with Ruther, that we were given another opportunity to come here and that I'm in another country. It just all seems like a dream. And I don't want it to end.

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Yesterday, my dad called through Skype. I was surprised because I was ironing then and didn't expect his call. Anyway, there was something wrong with the computer back home because my dad couldn't hear anything from our side. So what he did was to call us by phone and watch us through Skype. It was hilarious. But at least they got to see the boys. My mom and dad really enjoyed Ethan's antics and Nikki's non-stop and senseless chatter. And I enjoyed seeing my parents looking so well. My dad said he's going to have the computer checked and we'll schedule a videochat. You just gotta love technology.

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We went to Yodobashi (Yokohama) last night because Ruther wanted to check out a tripod for my camera. But what I really love about going there is checking out the 6th floor. They have these rows and rows of capsules. You know, the ones where you insert a coin or two and get a toy in return. Anyway, it's really fun to walk through aisles and aisles of vending machines and pick a toy. I only pick the cutest ones and those that cost ¥100. Anything more than that I find a bit expensive. Anyway, I started collecting this really cute cellphone accessory that looks like different kinds of cakes. The cake slices looked so yummy, Ethan even started biting the chocolate one. :D Anyway, I got a strawberry shortcake yesterday and it was so cute! Nikki loves the Mario bros stuff and Ruther pretty much collects for me. Hahaha! Anyway, we had a blast looking around and picking the ones we liked best. We also went to the toy section and got the boys a fun bath toy (will post a photo of that later). Here's a photo of a strawberry shortcake which looks exactly the same as the accessory I got (both are from the Fujiya company and I got this photo from their website):




Doesn't it look sooooo yummy? :)

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

PHOTOS

Just want to share some random photos...


The boys, enjoying their ice cream.










Nikki watches the Wonder Pets on Daddy's iMac.
















With Ultraman.

















Our second hanabi.









The little blue ball that we found at the playground.

Monday, August 11, 2008

SHOES, A TRIM AND LESSONS

We went to Yokohama Bay Marina yesterday after church to check out the shops there. We found a great pair of basketball shoes for Ruther at the Nike store. It's white and blue and actually looks good on Ruther's feet. I also told him that they didn't look too much like basketball shoes which is a plus because he plays badminton too. Anyway, Ruther wanted to get a pair of shoes for me as well. I didn't want the added expense but he insisted. I actually wanted this cute dark green sandal-type of shoes (also from Nike) but they didn't have one my size. It was such a disappointment because it was on sale and it was so cute. So I had to settle on another pair which Ruther liked so I guess that was okay with me. The boys had fun eating ice cream and playing in the paddle boats. By 5pm we were on our way home. Will post a photo of the shoes here later. :)

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I gave the boys another trim this morning. Their hair was just too long and unmanageable. Besides, my mom was complaining through email that they needed a haircut. Gotta love technology. Anyway, I also told my mom that a few days ago I gave Ruther's hair a trim and
then last Saturday, I dyed his hair (to cover the white strands). My dad found out and remarked that I might as well put up a beauty salon here in Yokohama. Hahahaha!

Silly Daddy.

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I'm a little bit worried about our homeschooling. It's not that we're not doing it, it's just a bit hard to schedule these days with all the chores I have to do. We still do informal lessons but I would love it if we had a specific time for reading, worksheets and experiments. Anyway, I'm sure we'll manage somehow. It's just a bit difficult with the limited learning materials. Most of them are back home in Manila. Anyway, I'll just have to research for activities for the boys then. Hopefully that wouldn't take up much of my time...

Saturday, August 09, 2008

DUSK


Took this photo on the way home from the supermarket.

Friday, August 08, 2008

SOMETHING BLUE AND KEEPING COOL

We were on our way home from the supermarket this morning when we chanced upon a lonely blue basketball in the bushes at the playground. Of course we were hesitant to get it but when we noticed that we were the only people there, we decided to bring the ball home. Of course the boys were happy with the new toy and of course I was happy that I did not have to spend a yen for it. And I'm sure the ball is quite happy to be out of the sun and to be in a new home now.

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I've spent the week cleaning the apartment because another inspection is scheduled this Sunday. Of course, we don't want to waste the weekend cleaning so I tried to clean the areas here a little at a time. We might look for a pair of basketball shoes for Ruther to prevent him from having another sprain the next time he plays with his friends. We might also try going to a nice family place, preferably somewhere with air conditioning because it's just been so hot these past days. Anyway, we could always plan that tomorrow and hopefully, wherever we end up will be somewhere nice and fun.

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The boys can never get enough ice cream these days. I really can't blame them in this heat. Whenever we're at Daiei, they beg for a McDonald's soft twist ice cream. Most of the time though, we buy them a big cup of vanilla ice cream and a box of cones and they eat them at home (not all at once of course). Ruther and I love the yummy, sweet and juicy watermelons. They are just so refreshing. It's just been so warm this summer. It's too bothersome to go out during the day not unless it was cloudy. I don't even want to wear make-up these days because I just know it'll just melt away in the heat and from my sweat. So until it gets a bit more cooler, my make-up kit will just have to wait.

Tuesday, August 05, 2008

GIVE-AWAYS, MORNINGS AND AN IMPROVED FOOT

Ruther's friend and neighbor (here in Japan) is resigning from the company very soon. She's going to be migrating to Australia and will be leaving Japan in the middle of the month. Yesterday, she dropped a lot of stuff for us since she said she wouldn't be needing them anymore and therefore, won't be bringing them home. She gave us a lot of kitchen supplies: spices, white wine, coffee, creamer, peanut butter, Milo, butter, even some baking equipment. She also gave me some make-up, an unopened box of facial cotton, a hair dryer (it was 110V so naturally she thought it would be better to leave it here), her cute pink parasol and other rain umbrellas. I can't remember the other things but I was definitely happy with the give-aways. I was going to buy some spices for the pantry but because of all the stuff given to us, I don't think I'll be going to the grocery anytime soon. :)

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Mornings in Japan (during the summer) is a lot different from mornings in the Philippines. I noticed this the other day when I opened the window and found the air immediately stifling, humid and uncomfortable. Mornings in the Philippines is like a friend gently shaking you awake, or a lover slowly kissing you good morning. When you open your eyes in the morning you feel the cool morning chill, the quiet atmosphere, the gentle morning rays of the sun coming through your bedroom window. I especially love looking out the window at the mango tree where birds flit to and fro, chirping and just going about their business. The cool air is simply perfect for a cup of hot, delicious coffee or a glass of warm taho. It usually starts to get warm by noon but here, it's only 9am and you're sweating bullets. Ruther complained the other day that he hasn't even reached the office yet and he's already perspiring. No wonder people bring fans with them all the time here. Anyway, here's hoping the mornings here will vastly improve in the next month.

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Ruther's sprained foot is improving nicely. It's less swollen and he hardly limps now. I am definitely glad about that. I'm still thinking about whether he should be playing basketball this Saturday but I would rather he didn't. Well, we could always go out and sightsee instead of go to the gym this weekend. I think that would be a better idea.

We'll see.

RAMEN


Itadakimasu! Really missed this... Yummy!

Sunday, August 03, 2008

SPRAIN AND STROLLER BAGS

Yesterday we went to the gym and while Ruther was playing basketball with his friends, he sprained his ankle. When we got home it looked pretty bad and swollen. I let him take an anti-inflammatory pill and we iced his ankle. He had a lot of difficulty moving around that I decided for the both of us we were going to stay home this weekend. Problem is, he has to go to work tomorrow and I didn't want him to take a tumble with his sore foot. So while the boys had their nap, I went to Daiei and searched for a cane. Fortunately they had several there and I picked the cheapest one. Ruther tried the cane and he didn't look awkward at all. At least now I wouldn't have to worry about him walking unassisted. On our way home yesterday he was hobbling so bad I got worried. A least with his cane, he could walk with a bit of support. I told Ruther that I was going to accompany him to the train station in the morning. I just want to make sure he gets there safely. Hopefully, the other commuters will be considerate about his condition. As of tonight, his ankle looks less swollen but I'm not taking any chances. I told Ruther that he should have his foot checked by the company doctor and he said he will. Hopefully, by the end of this week his foot will be all better. But basketball playing is definitely postponed for now.

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Stroller bags are really handy here in Japan. All sorts of stroller bags abound. Some are used for travel, some for daily living, for kids, for school, for work, for shopping, etc. Some are plain, others fancy. I even saw a very cute Hello Kitty bag once. It was so cool. Not only are stroller bags environmentally-friendly when shopping (everyone should have their own reusable shopping bag methinks) but it's very convenient. When you take the train to go places you will definitely have to WALK long distances. Now, if you're a mom (like me) with kids (like me) and take a ton of things with you all the time (like me) a stroller bag is not only handy, it's also practical. I remember carrying a heavy bag once and my shoulder muscles ached for days. When the family went to Yuigahama beach recently I insisted we bring Nikki's stroller bag with us. I just knew that we were going to take a lot of things with us. How can we not? We have the boys. If I were single, a small bag would suffice but not now. Turns out, it was a good idea we brought the bag because when Ethan got sleepy and asked to be carried, Nikki just rolled his bag along. And when HE got sleepy, one of Ruther's friend offered to pull the bag for us. Pulling a stroller bag is definitely easier than carrying a heavy beach bag. So it was a relief that we had that bag with us. Have my own shopping bag, by the way. It's like a canvass bag with foldable wheels at the bottom so you could opt to carry it or roll it. Neat, huh? I learned from my last trip here that shopping can be really exhausting when you have more than 4 bags to carry all the way home from the supermarket. So I got that really handy bag. How else will you expect me to carry a 5 kilo pack of rice all the way home?

(Ruther does the carrying actually. Thank God for husbands.) :)

Saturday, August 02, 2008

COSMOWORLD


The boys at CosmoWorld. It's such a fun place and is located just in front of Ruther's office building. :)

HANABI AT RINKO PARK

Last night we got to watch another hanabi. It was located at Rinko Park, the same place where we watched before. However, we tried to get there earlier to reserve a spot for us. And how do we do that? By placing your very own mat on the ground. It's like marking your personal territory/space and telling people "this is our spot so don't touch it!". I had to bring a roll of tape with me so I could affix the mat on the ground otherwise the wind would have picked our mat up immediately and blown it away. Doing this in the Philippines is not a good idea. After 2 minutes, your mat (and every other mat around for that matter) would be gone. I guess it's just how it is with poverty around. You really have to understand how societies differ in every country...

Anyway, after having lunch at KFC (the boys loved that!) at Nakayama we made our way to Sakuragicho. We walked to Rinko Park (this was around 12 noon) and we found a spot and already, there were a LOT of mats around. We didn't stay long at the park because the sun came out and boys were just too uncomfy there. So I thought of spending the afternoon at Queen 's Square instead. We passed by CosmoWorld first (because Ethan insisted) and the boys had fun playing air hockey and Nikki tried the Mario Kart. Then we went into Queen's Square and we went to Snoopy Town. I found a cute umbrella that was on sale (from ¥900+ to ¥399) and I just had to buy it for myself. I adore Snoopy. After that, the boys got sleepy so we looked for a bench where they could lie down. We found 2 empty ones and Nikki fell asleep. Ethan dozed for a bit but woke up after a while. By this time (which was around 4pm) there were already a lot of people milling around. There were a lot of people dressed in yukatas (even the kids!) and I had to look closely at how they did their obis. Of course, a lot of them were too elaborate for me but at least I now know how neat my obi should be when it's done. I can't wait to wear my yukata again.

Anyway, we met up with Ruther at around 530pm after I bought some food and drinks. We then made our way back to our lonely mat and Nikki was quite happy that it was still there. We ate some of our food and the fireworks began at around 715pm. Wouldn't you know, there was a tree near us and it partly covered the colorful display. Now a lot of people would be bummed about that but me, I'm a patient and resourceful person. Ruther wanted to take shots of the fireworks but didn't want to move from the spot. I don't know if he was too bothered or just timid because of the crowd but I was kind of irritated at his attitude because if I had a nice camera and there were fireworks in the sky I wouldn't let a tree get in my way. Plus, I wanted to show my mom and sis what we were seeing then. So I huffed my way to a clear area (which was just several meters away near a pathway) and took some shots with my camera. When I got back to the mat Ruther asked me if I got some nice shots. Of course I said yes. So
he also looked for a clear area and took some shots as well.

Learning from the previous hanabi experience, we didn't stay long anymore. We really didn't want to get caught in the crowd, especially the crowd walking towards the train. The last time we got caught in the crowd the boys were nearly swallowed by the throng of people. So this time we decided to leave before everybody had the same idea. Which was a good move because when we rode the train home it was not as crowded. Anyway, I'm glad the boys enjoyed the fireworks and I'm glad that we got to have another fun day spent as a family.