Saturday, October 13, 2007

NIKKI AND HIS DINOS


These stuffed dinos were presents from Christine, Russell's wife who came for a visit from the US few weeks ago. These were her pasalubong for the boys. Nikki named the brontosaurus Haiiro because it means "grey" in Nihongo. And of course, he had to name the other one Chairo because it's brown. Cool names, if you ask me. =D
Photo taken last month.

4 IN THE MORNING

Gwen Stefani


Waking up to find another day
The moon got lost again last night
But now the sun has finally had its say
I guess I feel alright

But it hurts when I think
When I let it sink in
It's all over me
I'm lying here in the dark
I'm watching you sleep, it hurts a lot
& all I know is
You've got to give me everything
Nothing less cause
You know I give you all of me

Chorus:
I give you everything that I am
I'm handin' over everything that I've got
Cause I wanna have a really true love
Don't ever wanna have to go & give you up
Stay up till Four In The Morning & the tears are pouring
& I want to make it worth the fight
What have we been doing for all this time?
Baby if we're gonna do it, come on do it right

All I wanted was to know I'm safe
Don't want to lose the love I've found
Remember when you said that you would change
Don't let me down
It's not fair how you are
I can't be complete, can you give me more?
& all I know is
You got to give me everything
& nothing less cause
You know I give you all of me

(Chorus)

Oh please, you know what I need
Save all your love up for me
We can't escape the love
Give me everything that you have
& all I know is
You got to give me everything
& nothing less cause
You know I give you all of me

ROOM UPDATE

I have not mentioned it early this week but the painters have started working in our room already. They actually started last Monday and this is their 6th day of work. They have sandpapered the furnishings and shelves and such and they have also started painting most of the furniture. Hopefully, next week, they could start working on the bedframe and then paint the room by Thursday. I am urging them to not dilly-dally so that by next week, the room will be done and then I could air the room for a few days to let the paint smell dissipate then I could start fixing the room and the attic. I think Mama wants to fix everything up soon and I really could not put my stuff anywhere else except in the existing space available which is of course, in the living and family room. It is quite an inconvenience but I really can't do anything about it until the room is all done and I can transfer the stuff. So hopefully, next week, the room will be done. I'm keeping my fingers crossed.

NEW BABY

There's a new baby in the family! Ruther's cousin Lot, gave birth through CS yesterday and she now has a really cute baby boy. So adorable. She had the CS operation at around 8 in the morning because they found out the day before, that her water was leaking out of her and would pose a threat to the baby. So it was a good thing that yesterday, everything went well and when Russell, Tita Nicki and I went to the hospital for a visit, we got the chance to see the baby! I was so excited to hold it and Tita Nicki was crying because she said she was so happy. At around 5pm or so (we arrived at the hospital around 430pm), Lot's other cousins visited so it was like a mini-reunion. Her younger sister Beck ordered pizza for everyone and we had a mini-picnic in the suite. But of course, everyone was doting on the cute baby. The baby's father is still out of the country but he might visit if all goes well. I'll try to post some photos of the adorable baby. It made me quite nostalgic seeing it so tiny in my arms and made me realize that indeed, my boys have grown so much. Sigh... I might have to leaf through the boys' baby books later...

Thursday, October 11, 2007

ETHAN


Little Ethan. He loves having his photo taken and it shows. =D So cute.
Photo taken a few days ago.

BOURNE ULTIMATUM


I watched this movie the other night and it was cool. I never really liked Matt Damon before the Bourne movies. He was like, okay with me as an actor but after watching Bourne Identity, he was woah! Pretty cool. Not Jet Li cool though, but cool enough. =D Anyway, I loved the flick and maybe because I already loved the first 2 movies. I just found the plot riveting and exciting and full of suspense. The action scenes were great too and I could only imagine Ruther's annoyance at me while I went "Get him! Get the guy!" or "Just kill him already!" Yes, I can become quite involved with the stories while I'm watching the action (of course, I don't do this in the movie theatres for fear of being booted out)... =D Anyway, I think this will make it to out DVD collection and of course, the rest of the Bourne movies as well...

IMPETIGO UPDATE

Well, Nikki has been taking the antibiotic regularly, I am happy to say. I was thinking it was going to be a fuss-filled event but surprisingly, Nikki is okay with drinking the medicine as long as he gulps it down fast. I'm actually quite proud of him. I know how yucky medicine could be for some kids. (I'm sure Ethan would not be as accommodating.) Yeah, I'm quite glad that we are having no problems with the drinking of the medicine. Anyway, I have been observing Nikk's sores closely and the only change I have seen so far is the one on his scalp, the area above his forehead. It seems to be healing nicely. The rest however, are still the same and I'm suspecting it's because Nikki keeps on scratching those. So yesterday, I bought a bunch of bandaids and after he had his bath, I applied some antibiotic ointment on the sores and covered them up with the bandages. This way, his impetigo won't spread and at the same time, will keep scratching to a minimum. Hopefully it will work. Ethan has some small "bites" and I'm applying antibiotic ointment on them too to prevent them from becoming sores. He also keeps on scratching them and it's driving me nuts having to remind them all the time NOT to scratch. Anyway, as long as we continue with the daily treatment and taking of the oral antibiotic, then I'm sure they will be right as rain in no time. =D

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

EGGS



These eggs were laid by the chicken here at home. Nikki and Ethan were so fascinated by these eggs because they looked more elongated and less white (light brown) than the usual eggs we buy at the supermarket. At least they know that not all eggs are the same now. =D

Photo taken a few days ago.

DIZZY

Ruther just told me that he is home from work. Apparently, he suffered some dizziness this morning and decided to just have some rest today. I'm kind of worried about this dizziness. When we were in Japan last year, he also had vertigo while we were at the gym and he said he felt kind of weak. I noticed that this happens intermittently, like every 4 months or so but I'm worried that it might be something more serious. I want him to take a thorough physical examination when he gets back so that we could find out if these are truly dizzy-ing spells only or if it's a symptom of something bigger. I just don't want to be complacent about these things. As always, prevention is so much better than cure and I don't want Ruther to keep having these bouts of vertigo. It's really quite alarming. =(

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Hot day today.

I have been trying to keep Nikki's itching to a minimum but it's quite difficult because for kids, it's like an involuntary action. Every once in a while, I say "Nikki, don't scratch!" and really, he's quite fed up of that reminder. But well, it can't be helped because I really don't want his impetigo to spread to Ethan.

With regards to the antibiotic-taking, we're doing okay so far. We haven't missed a dose and Nikki is getting better in taking the medicine everytime. The first time he tried to drink it, he gagged. So I told him to take the medicine in 2 sips. I taught him how to sip half of the medicine in the cup then drink a bit of water then take the remaining medicine and drink water again. Now he's not too bothered about the medicine. I just remind him that if he takes the medicine regularly, his booboos will all go away then we could go play in the bouncy castle again. He's really looking forward to that now. =D

UH-OH!

http://health.yahoo.com/news/180153

Study ties marital strife, heart disease
October 8, 2007 09:28:04 PM PST

A lousy marriage might literally make you sick. Marital strife and other bad personal relationships can raise your risk for heart disease, researchers reported Monday.

What it likely boils down to is stress, a well-known contributor to health problems, as well as a potential byproduct of troubled relationships, the scientists said.

In a study of 9,011 British civil servants, most of them married, those with the worst close relationships were 34 percent more likely to have heart attacks or other heart trouble during 12 years of follow-up than those with good relationships. That included partners, close relatives and friends.

The study, in Monday's Archives of Internal Medicine, follows previous research that has linked health problems with being single and having few close relationships. In the new study, researchers focused more on the quality of marriage and other important relationships.

"What we add here is that, 'OK, being married is in general good, but be careful about the kind of person you have married.' The quality of the relationship matters," said lead author Roberto De Vogli, a researcher with University College in London.

De Vogli said his research team is doing tests to see if study participants with bad relationships have any biological evidence of stress that could contribute to heart disease. That includes inflammation and elevated levels of stress hormones.

Another recent study also looked at quality of relationships but had different results. There was no association between marital woes in general and risks for heart disease or early death. But it did find, over a 10-year follow-up, that women who keep silent during marital arguments had an increased risk of dying compared with wives who expressed their feelings during fights. What appeared to matter more for men was just being married; married men were less likely to die during the follow-up than single men.

That study, of nearly 4,000 men and women, was published online in July in the journal Psychosomatic Medicine.

In De Vogli's study, men and women with bad relationships faced equal risks. Volunteers filled out questionnaires asking them to rate the person to whom they felt closest on several measures. These included questions about to what extent does that person "give you worries, problems and stress?"

They also were asked about whether they felt they could confide in that person, or whether talking with that person made them feel worse.

Over the following 12 years, 589 participants had heart attacks or other heart problems. Those with the highest negative scores on the questionnaire had the highest risks, even taking into account other factors related to heart disease such as obesity, high blood pressure and smoking.

James Coyne, a University of Pennsylvania psychology professor who also has examined the health impact of social relationships, said De Vogli's results "make intuitive sense." But he said the study found only a weak association that doesn't prove bad relationships can cause heart disease.

"It is still not clear what to recommend," Coyne said.

"Do we tell people who have negative relationships to get therapy? They may have other reasons to do so, but I see no basis for them doing so only to avoid a heart attack," Coyne said.
Ending a bad marriage is not necessarily the answer either, he said, given evidence that being unmarried also could be a risk.

Tuesday, October 09, 2007

LAZY CAT



This cat was sleeping right outside or window one sunny afternoon so I thought of taking its photo. It looks so content, doesn't it?

Photo taken this week.

IMPETIGO

Nikki has impetigo. Sounds really bad, doesn't it? It's a skin infection and looks like a really bad sore. Nikki already has 7 on his body. He actually had only 6 but when I saw another one today I freaked out and decided to bring him to the doctor immediately. It was almost 5pm and I was worried that the pedia's clinic near home would be closed already. But good thing, when we got there, it was still open. So the doctor checked Nikki's sores and I told him the history. Then the doctor told me it was impetigo. I felt kind of relieved that I now know what those sores were and I now know how to (hopefully) prevent another infection. The doctor was nice and I think it would be okay for Nikki to have a regular doctor from now on. We usually go to a pedia that is recommended by Ruther's company but in situations like this, location can be a big plus. And in those clinics we had to wait for like an hour or so until it was our turn. I HATE that. So it's nice that there's a good doctor nearby to calm my nerves when an emergency comes up. Anyway, Nikki has to drink an antibiotic 4 times a day for a week. I'm already dreading it. Wish me (lots of) luck. Hopefully, Nikki will be better once the week of antibiotic-drinking is over.

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Impetigo, a contagious skin infection that usually produces blisters or sores on the face and hands, is one of the most common skin infections among kids.
It is generally caused by one of two bacteria: group A streptococcus or staphylococcus aureus. Impetigo usually affects preschool and school-age children, especially in the summer months. A child may be more likely to develop impetigo if the skin has already been irritated or injured by other skin problems, such as eczema, poison ivy, insect bites, or a skin allergy to soap or makeup.
Good hygiene can help prevent impetigo, which often develops when there is a sore or a rash that has been scratched repetitively (for example, poison ivy can get infected and turn into impetigo). Impetigo is typically treated with antibiotics.


http://www.kidshealth.org/parent/infections/bacterial_viral/impetigo.html

RATATOUILLE


I watched this movie the other day and I must say, I enjoyed it tremendously! I have always loved watching cooking-themed shows and movies and this one was no exception. It was funny and interesting and I loved the animation. The voice talents were also great and added a lot of character to the little critters in the movie. I just loved everything about the movie. As always, Pixar is there to bring families together through their movies. And I think Brad Bird rocks!! Am going to watch this movie again and I WILL definitely have this in the boys' DVD collection. =D

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Ratatouille is a traditional French Provençal stewed vegetable dish which can be served as a meal on its own (accompanied by rice, potatoes, or simply French bread), or as a side dish. Tomatoes are a key ingredient, with onions, zucchini (courgettes), eggplant (aubergine), bell peppers, some herbes de Provence, and sometimes basil. All the ingredients are sautéed in olive oil.

The name of the dish appears to derive from the French touiller, "to stir", although the root of the first element "rata" is slang from the French Army meaning "chunky stew". (from Wikipedia)

The vegetables can vary according to the cook. They can be cooked together, or cooked separately and then combined and heated briefly together. Ratatouille can be served hot, cold or at room temperature, either as a side dish or as an appetizer with bread or crackers. (from Food Lover's Companion)

ALL I ASK OF YOU (PHANTOM OF THE OPERA)

I love the movie and I love this song...

by Emmy Rossum and Patrick Wilson

Raoul:
No more talk of darkness,
Forget these wide-eyed fears.
I'm here, nothing can harm you -
my words will warm and calm you.
Let me be your freedom,
let daylight dry your tears.
I'm here, with you, beside you,
to guard you and to guide you . . .

Christine:
Say you'll love me ev'ry waking moment;
turn my head with talk of summertime.
Say you need me with you now and always;
promise me that all you say is true,
that's all I ask of you.

Raoul:
Let me be your shelter,
let me be your light;
you're safe, no one will find you,
your fears are far behind you.

Christine:
All I want is freedom,
a world with no more night;
and you, always beside me,
to hold me and to hide me.

Raoul:
Then say you'll share with me one love, one lifetime;
let me lead you from you solitude.
Say you need me with you, here beside you,
anywhere you go, let me go too,
Christine, that's all I ask of you.

Christine:
Say you'll share with me one love, one lifetime.
Say the word and I will follow you.

Together:
Share each day with me,
each night, each morning.
Christine:
Say you love me...
Raoul:
You know I do.

Together:
Love me, that's all I ask of you.
Anywhere you go let me go too
Love me...
that's all I ask of you.

TODAY

Big girls don't cry.






That's all...

Monday, October 08, 2007

JUST WHEN WE THOUGHT IT WAS SAFE...

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20071008/ap_on_re_us/wisconsin_shooting

Off-duty Wis. deputy sheriff kills 6
by ROBERT IMRIE, Associated Press Writer 40 minutes ago

CRANDON, Wis. - The residents of a remote northern Wisconsin community struggled to understand Monday how a sheriff's deputy who killed six young people and critically wounded another could have become a law enforcement officer.

Tyler Peterson, 20, was shot to death after opening fire early Sunday on a group of students and recent graduates who had gathered for pizza and movies during their high school's homecoming weekend. Peterson was off-duty from his full-time job as a Forest County deputy sheriff; he also was a part-time Crandon police officer.

David Franz, 36, who lives with his wife two houses from the duplex where the shooting occurred, said it was hard to accept that someone in law enforcement was the gunman.

"The first statement we said to each other was, 'How did he get through the system?'" Franz said. "How do they know somebody's background, especially that young? It is disturbing, to say the least."

Sheriff Keith Van Cleve said he would meet with state Attorney General J.B. Van Hollen on Monday morning to discuss the case.

Crandon Police Chief John Dennee said the investigation would be handled by the state Department of Criminal Investigation because the suspect was a deputy and officer.

Peterson was killed Sunday afternoon, eight miles north of Crandon in the rural town of Argonne, Dennee said.

Crandon Mayor Gary Bradley said Sunday that a sniper killed the suspect, but Van Cleve would not confirm that officers shot him.

The gunman's motive was unclear, but the mother of a 14-year-old victim said the suspect may have been a jealous boyfriend.

"I'm waiting for somebody to wake me up right now. This is a bad, bad dream," said Jenny Stahl, whose daughter, Lindsey Stahl, was the youngest victim. "All I heard it was a jealous boyfriend and he went berserk. He took them all out."

Dennee declined comment on whether Peterson had a romantic relationship with any of the victims.

The lone survivor of the shooting, a male, remained in critical condition Monday at St. Joseph's Hospital, according to nursing supervisor Penny Funk.

The white, two-story duplex where the shooting occurred was about a block from downtown Crandon, a small town located 225 miles north of Milwaukee in an area known for logging and outdoor activities. The victims had gathered for what Dennee described as "a pizza and movie party."

David Franz's wife, Marci, said she was awakened by the gunshots.

"I heard probably five or six shots, a short pause and then five or six more," she said. "I wasn't sure if it was gunfire initially. I thought some kids were messing around and hitting a nearby metal building."

Then she heard eight louder shots and tires squealing, she said.

"I was just about to get up and call it in, and I heard sirens," she said. "There's never been a tragedy like this here. There's been individual incidents, but nothing of this magnitude."

Three of the victims were Crandon High School students, said school Superintendent Richard Peters, and the other three had graduated within the past three years.

"There is probably nobody in Crandon who is not affected by this," Peters said, adding that students "are going to wake up in shock and disbelief and a lot of pain."

Peters did not know whether Peterson had graduated from the 300-student school. But Crandon resident Karly Johnson, 16, said that she knew the gunman and that he had helped her in a tech education class.

"He graduated with my brother," she said. "He was nice. He was an average guy. Normal. You wouldn't think he could do that."

The Crandon School District called off classes Monday.

One victim, 20-year-old Bradley Schultz, was a third-year student at the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee who was home to visit his friends, said his aunt, Sharon Pisarek.

"We still don't have many details, but from what they've told us, there was a girl next to him and he was covering her, protecting her," she said, sobbing. "He was loved by everybody. He was everybody's son. Senseless."

Another aunt, Rose Gerow, said Schultz was majoring in criminal justice and wanted to be a homicide detective.

"This is senseless because they were friends," Gerow said. "These guys weren't after his girlfriend, they were just getting together."

The town of about 2,000 people last made headlines in August, when community groups and a soldier helped bring an Iraqi girl to the United States for a cornea transplant. The mayor pleaded Monday for support to help the town begin to heal.

"This is something we have to put back together," he said.

JACK-O'-LANTERN



Arts and crafts time! We made jack o' lanterns out of old CDs and construction paper. I thought that we could make lots of these and decorate the boys' room in time for Halloween. I have been meaning to bring the boys trick or treating. Here in the Philippines, that is usually done at the malls (during regular mall hours of course) because only few villages and subdivisions organize trick or treating at their homes. I have yet to ask around where my boys could do their trick or treating. I think it will be fun for them to experience that this year. =D

CONGRATS MANNY!!

You really make our country proud!!! =D

http://www.sportingnews.com/yourturn/viewtopic.php?t=287073

Pacquiao wins rematch with Barrera
Posted: October 7, 2007

LAS VEGAS (AP) -- Manny Pacquiao sure didn't look distracted while he pounded Marco Antonio Barrera into retirement.

Barrera was sharp as well, and he kept his feet in this entertaining rematch -- but Pacquiao kept his supremacy.

Pacquiao beat Barrera for the second time Saturday night, winning a gritty unanimous decision nearly four years after the Philippines' favorite son became a boxing superstar with an upset victory over Barrera.

Pacquiao's trainers and fans worried about the distractions of Manny's many interests outside boxing in the weeks leading to the fight. Pacquiao's dalliances with movies, music and politics didn't matter, because the sport's most inspired brawler was his usual ruthless self in dispatching yet another great Mexican champion in a 130-pound bout at Mandalay Bay.

"It was a good fight, and it was different from the first fight," Pacquiao said. "He's a good, smart boxer. I'm satisfied with the result. I knew he would have to box me this time around."

Not even an illegal 11th-round blow by Barrera could stop the lightning-quick Pacquiao (45-3-2, 34 KOs), who earned his sixth straight victory. Barrera (63-6) lost a point for a head shot that discombobulated Pacquiao after the referee moved in to separate them in the 11th, but Pacquiao recovered in time to reach the final bell.

Though Barrera again said he'll retire after consecutive losses this year, the result was a moral victory that could be heard in the voices of the Mexican fans who stood and cheered the 33-year-old as he left the ring.

"I definitely lost my head in some of those rounds," Barrera said. "I got too caught up in the action. I probably shouldn't have stayed in those exchanges as long as I did. We boxed well. I feel like I dominated the fight with my left hand, and then I got a head-butt, and that's what threw me off the game plan."

Pacquiao was responsible for the only TKO loss of the Mexican champion's career in their first meeting in late 2003, but Barrera refused to go down this time against one of the sport's knockout artists.

With his three children crowded around him, Barrera affirmed his decision to retire afterward. He vowed he wouldn't even enter the ring for a farewell fight in his native Mexico City, as he had previously considered.

"I was sad because I lost the fight, but he never really hurt me," Barrera said. "I didn't even think he landed that many punches."

Both fighters raised their arms in celebration at the end, but Barrera's excitement seemed artificial. Judge Tom Schreck scored it 115-112 for Pacquiao, while Jerry Roth and Glenn Trowbridge both favored Pacquiao 118-109. The Associated Press also gave it to Pacquiao, 116-111.

Pacquiao predictably dominated the punch stats, landing 256 punches to Barrera's 120. Pacquiao also had more than twice as many power shots, hitting on 54 percent while Barrera had just 34 percent.

"I was surprised (Barrera) lasted the way he did," said Freddie Roach, Pacquiao's trainer. "He has a lot of heart and guts. He fought a great fight. ... Manny boxed well. He showed good footwork, cutting off and moving him to the right. When he did that, it was beautiful."

With Pacquiao in his prime and Barrera on the downside, Pacquiao was a strong favorite to win the rematch -- but their 2003 roles were reversed.

Barrera was the favorite in the fighters' first meeting, but his preparation was beset by distractions ranging from a forest fire near his training camp to the metal plate in his head. Nearly four years later, Barrera prepared furiously for his first fight since losing his WBC 130-pound belt to Juan Manuel Marquez in March.

Pacquiao is now the distracted superstar who abruptly moved his training camp back home to the Philippines, where he's besieged daily by side projects ranging from movie roles and pop singing to political aspirations.

In Manila, President Gloria Macapagal Arroyo led Filipinos rejoicing Sunday over the latest victory by their boxing hero, who caused Philippine troops and Muslim rebels to briefly lay down their arms to support him.

"Filipino boxing great Manny Pacquiao once again buoyed the nation's spirit with his excellent fighting form and indomitable spirit," Arroyo said. "Our 'national fist' is the Philippines' gift to the world of boxing."

Pacquiao's fights are national events in the Philippines, with athletic clubs and bars and clubs -- and even air force bases -- turning into viewing venues for millions of fans. Pacquiao usually gives them something to cheer, and he provided just enough action to stay on top.

Pacquiao did his first real damage late in the second round with a flurry of combinations that forced Barrera to retreat and counterpunch. Barrera got back on the offensive in the middle rounds, staggering Pacquiao several times during their crowd-pleasing exchanges, but Pacquiao usually was a half-second quicker.

Pacquiao opened a cut below Barrera's right eye with a flurry in the 11th, but Barrera staggered Pacquiao with an overhand right after referee Tony Weeks jumped in to break up the fighters. Weeks deducted a point while Pacquiao stood with his arms on the ropes, but the punch must not have been serious.

Both fighters made $2 million as promoters Oscar De La Hoya and Bob Arum staged an entertaining card in their first joint effort since settling various legal disputes between Golden Boy Promotions and Top Rank, including a lengthy wrangle over the right to promote Pacquiao.